Day 99 - Kite Runner
Finished off the kitchen cabinet and I think Mrs N was quite impressed as it involved attaching it to the wall and precision drilling 2 holes into the metal door frame for the handle...using my wood drill bit. We loaded up the glasses and it looks pretty damn good, even though I say so myself.
Went for a walk up St Catherine's Hill with the neighbours and it was spectacular. The wind was strong and we flew a kite for a while and then walked down the steps that I had seen on my run last week - all 320 of them!. Ellen and Helena got stuck up a tree so I had to walk the way back up to rescue them. Sent a photo back to the running crew to see if they fancied joining me for some stair work.
Day 98 - Yes, Finally, Ikea
Went for a run with Mrs N this morning. My watch kept beeping due to the pace so had to turn that off after 2 mins. Just under 3 miles, up and down some hills was a good start. I don't think she likes running with me.
We spent an absolute fortune at Ikea but being the pros we are, we got in and out before the real carnage began. Got everything in the car somehow and then I burst with pride as all three of my children set to work constructing Ikea furniture. Start 'em young and they'll be experts by the time they buy their first home. Brings a tear to the eye.
Ted put together a kitchen table, Alice the coat rack and some boxes and Ellen surprised us all with a bedside cabinet. My piece de resistance was a full length kitchen cabinet for our considerable collection of glasses. Didn't finish it so have to pop back to Ikea in the morning...
Day 97 - Last Day Of School...Again
School finishes today so the next school day at Kings'...I will be a teacher. Aaaaaargh. I'm not ready.
We needed to regroup today so we did in military like fashion. By lunch, we had found out that 4 Year 7s had said they were leaving and had not officially told the school. This is promising. In addition, we talked through the options of Ted going to HB and even found out that the #1 bus that takes us to Kings' takes us the HB the other direction. Not so bad.
Adele came to visit with Felix, Jake and Claudia. We haven't seen them for a couple of years and Claudia was tiny then. They all had a good time and Ted had his hands full with the 2 boys. A nice change for him as he is usually surrounded by girl cousins. Del talked about coming back when Felix hits 12. I think that may happen before we make it out there.
We all went to pick Alice up on her last day. Lots of tears amongst the leavers so I hope Alice has 2 brilliant years and feels the same way about leaving!
Day 96 - White Transit Van Man
Big day today as we hired a big white van (Renault not a Ford Transit as it happens) to move some furiniture around and take my mind off the appeal. First stop was Dad's to pick up the kids, Ellen's new bed and a sofa bed. Dad came back and helped get the sofa bed up the stairs where it fitted rather snugly in the family room. Ellen put her new bed together all by herself which was very impressive.
Then we got the bombshell. Ted's appeal had failed. This was totally unexpected and therefore a bit of a shock. On reflection, it's really the first major setback we have had but it's quite the setback and so we are going to have to plan for Ted to go to HB. Three kids in three different schools.
Ellen and I then spent the afternoon together driving up to East Horsley to pick up the trampoline. I really enjoyed the trip and she was very helpful dismantling the whole thing. It started to drizzle as we finished up and rained the whole way back. Got home and stored it in the garage. A long day
Day 95 - King Arthur and Ted's Appeal
Dressed up smart this morning and the sun shone brightly as we walked into town for Ted's appeal. We were both very nervous but confident about the outcome. The 1st session went as anticipated if a little long-winded but the first warning sign was there in that there was much discussion about Kings' being full.
Headed off for lunch and bought some new dining chairs before discovering King Arthur's Round Table. There it was, just hanging there, no pomp, no ceremony. Unbelievable. I thought it was a massive dartboard but no, all that legend right there in the middle of Winchester. It seems that Winchester was the centre of Kings and Queens for hundreds of years until the Civil War in the 17th Century. I never knew that.
We made our case in front of the Appeal Panel but the vibes weren't good as they were only interested in why our son should go to Kings' not why we thought Kings' could take another child. There is nothing we can do except wait now.
Day 94 - Harry Potter Snogging
Long run this morning and tried a different direction this time, along south and then east along the road. Found one path which was promising until it narrowed into brambles after a mile. I then found a lovely traverse a meadow which took me to the railway bridge by Christchurch Rd. Perfect! 8.5 miles
Spent the day at the new house and tackled some more boxes. The TV sat there, teasing me in its box, but I stayed strong and left it there.
Went to see Harry Potter 6 and enjoyed it. Way too much snogging and way too little fighting and explaining but not a bad film. Got outside to find my first welcome note on the windscreen. It seems I took up two parking spaces and whoever it was took exception to this selfish act, calling me a c*** and suggesting I learnt to drive. Welcome home!
Dropped off Ellen and Ted with M&D for the night and enjoyed some roast lamb. Big day tomorrow
Day 93 - Finally, A Big TV
The packers have gone so we went shopping. First up was Homebase and paint. The kids were very excited about choosing paints and I bought a push mower..is that a very cool retro thing to do or just silly. For 30 quid and a small lawn, I reckon it's sensible.
Second up was Curry's where the wheels really came off the wallet. A washing machine, a dryer, a 40" TV and one Blu Ray player later we staggered out. Hope it all works. Finally I get my big TV but judging by the digital reception in the other house, I am not optimistic about the quality of TV reception. We shall see.
The new house is beginning to look habitable. I wonder when we can move in. It all depends on Monday.
M&D came around for a cup of tea and gave us a masterclass on the coffee machine and oven. Very excited about my new coffee machine as I got the variety Nespresso pack. It was like a box of Quality Street with lots of different colours to choose from.
Day 92 - Can You Recycle All This?
The amount of packing material is phenomenal. I think our 2 British movers (the 3rd called in sick much to the 2 others' derision) are not impressed with the amount of paper and board they have to get through. It is an unfair contest - on the US side 7 packers + a foreman and on the UK side 2 unpackers. We all ended up pitching in as it was painful to watch at times. Mrs N declared herself dissatisfied with the storage space in the kitchen so a trip to Ikea is imminent.
Ted and I unpacked the garage and managed a sneaky game of ping pong to check the table was in working order. By 4pm the job was pretty much done and we sent the lads on their way with sore bodies and 20 quid for their hard labour.
We have been invited out by the neighbours in Nightingale Close for fajitas. A lovely family, with Ellen and Ted getting on well with their two kids. A little awkward as we have not told them about our parallel life in the new house. We will have to tell them soon
Day 91 - Squeezing up the Stairs
Thursday July 15th
Our ship has come in! All day at the new house, directing our three moving guys into various rooms. A big job for them but they did very well given they had 4 floors to contend with.
A slight hiccup with the sofas but we agreed to keep the big blue one downstairs and then willed the leather one to get up one flight. Finally it did and Mrs N was happy.
We checked out the new athletics track and astro-turf in Bar End. It only opens from 8am and costs 2 quid to run on it. Looks like I will have to join the Winchester and District Athletic Club
Went into town to eat and ran into the Winchester 5k. How I wanted to be running - I'm sure I can get sub 20 mins now, especially on a flat course. Instead I watched them forlornly from the window - the Winchester running vest of black with yellow horizontal stripe looked very fetching.
Finished off at the Maths Dept party. Enjoyed spending more time with my new colleagues and mostly listened. It will certainly be entertaining in the staffroom, if nothing else!
Day 90 - 87%: Not Bad For a Teacher
Attempt my first 2 GCSE papers. I get them done in an hour each and self mark 87% with a bunch of stupid mistakes. Feel pretty good about that and vow to do more. This dream is interrupted by return of Ellen and Ted from taking tests at Kings'. In the Literacy test, they are asked for an alternative word for strong as in "only the strong survive". Ellen suggests muscular while Ted surpasses himself with buff. God help us. Ellen has also picked up her new uniform and is torn between excitement and dismay. This is fun to watch.
Head back to the house for more cleaning so that it's ready for our worldly belongings tomorrow
Day 89 - Get the Rubber Gloves On
Try a fast run this morning and it feels OK. No car so Mrs N walks down to St Faiths with Alice and I sneak out to try Costa Coffee across the street. Not bad at all. I hope they do well but tough area for an expensive cup of coffee. Maybe all the Kings' teachers will be in there every morning from September.
Get the #5 bus into town and get a fleeting glimpse of JobCentre Plus as we go by..must make a visit there at some point although nothing like the riches of claiming US benefit. 200 quid Job Seekers allowance vs $440. Get the car back and then head to the new house for an afternoon of cleaning. The kitchen is in quite a state so we are all scrubbing and bleaching til late. I get to do the toilets, ergo the rubber gloves
Day 88 - Broken Car and New House
Nasty squeaking noise on the new car so take it in to the garage and it turns out a spring has gone in the rear suspension so no car for a day. At least we don't have to pay for it. Went and picked up the keys for the new house. We sat and admired it for a while before heading home on the bus. Not a bad journey at all, about 10 minutes. We will have to work out timings for school as I have no desire to stand on the bus with my or any other kids on the way to school every morning. Unfortunately those hills get in the way of a nice leisurely cycle ride in every day
I keep pinching myself that we have this magnificent new house. It was the first one we saw and I keep expecting someone to take it away from us. It feels much much scarier than having a mortgage. Somehow if the bank owns most of it, it doesn't feel such a huge responsibility but this time every brick, every pipe, every tile has been paid for by 20 years hard graft. Very different
Day 87 - My Daughter went for a Walk...and Survived
Brutal 9.5 mile run this morning. I was fine for 7 miles, in fact was doing some steady 7:20s but then I hit the inevitable hill back up to Kings. I tried to find a route back from St Cross and ended up at Sainsbury's. 2 miles later I staggered home and felt faint for the rest of the day. The answer: more hill work!!!!
Retraced my run with Ellen and Ted for a long walk into town. They hardly moaned the whole time and we discovered some fun stuff - a walking bridge across the railway, the Water Meadows, streams, cows, cricket pitches...all good stuff for them. Tried and failed to get them mobile phones again
Day 86 - St Margarets Fair
Brilliant day today as we drove up to St Margarets and met up with all our old friends.
Started with the Thrumbles for a cup of tea and to admire their new bathroom. Bumped into Mike and Rosie outside the house, taking their girls to ballet and went to have lunch with them. St Margarets has transformed into a real boutique community. Lots of little shops, cafes, delis. Really great atmosphere and I thoroughly enjoyed my late morning fry up. Their three girls are very very sweet and Mike comes down to Winchester to fish so hope to see more of him.
Walked into Richmond to check out the chairs in Habitat. A little disappointing so headed back for the afternoon at the fair. Saw JP and had a swift chat but he was very busy with the 5-a-side tournament. Saw the Hoyles and Dalys so got the full house. Ended up in the Turk's Head for a few pints (as per usual). Turns out Phil's sister lives round the corner from our new house and we're going camping with them on the Isle of Wight in a couple of weeks.
Days like this it feels good to come back. This is where we are from. This is who we are.
Day 85 - My Timetable
Quiet morning observing a couple of classes and then spent a good hour with the head of PSD, discussing my experience from yesterday. I have much to learn on this front but now have a handbook so at least I can learn the words and acronyms, and Diageo thought it had too many acronyms......
Jane took me through my timetable for next year. In my first week I will go solo on one class...lucky 8.2.4!!!!! 8 means Year 8, 2 means Band 2, 4 means Set 4. There are 11 sets across 3 bands with Maths and Science joined at the hip. Basically, Kings' is streamed in every subject which is why sitting with a 3.3 class is very challenging! I will have a 50% timetable with one Yr 7, 2 Yr 8 and 1 Yr 10 class, sharing with other teachers until they trust me to go it alone. Jane gave me a bunch of text books so that I can at least get to know the material over the summer. Terrifying.
Get home to several messages from Dan and Melissa. It seems the workshop is cancelled next week. I am relieved. I spoke to Dan later and he said that Larry had vetoed it saying "no outside consultants for work that should be done internally". Ha!
Day 84 - Jargon, Jargon, Jargon
Short run this morning. I am beginning to find out that you cannot run anywhere in Winchester without encountering some kind of hill. This has obvious upsides and downsides. The downside is that the house we live on is on the top of one particular hill and whichever direction I run in I end up with a nice uphill to make it home. On the plus side I am finding my way round some lovely parts of Winchester. Discovered the Water Meadows today...beautiful (see photo)
Back to school today and spent it with the Pupil Support Department. Here is where it is important to understand the jargon and be very careful with the words you use. Basically, PSD work with kids at the school who have special needs related to their learning. Learning Support Assistants (LSAs) work in the classroom with them and make sure they have what they need to be included in the mainstream. Kings' is the lead school in the area for physically disabled children, some of whom I spent the day with. Without exception, these kids were amazing. They are just part of the school and no-one treats them any differently from anyone else. I met Andrew, Will, Jess, Kerry and really enjoyed sitting with them and watching them get through the school day. Feeds the soul.
Ellen was very brave today and went to Swimming Club at the school. She was very hesitant to get in the pool and I kept telling her that she just had to jump in and get on with it. She finally did and had a great time.
Day 83 - Fresher
Headed off to the University of Southampton today to register formally on my GTP course. I tried to drop Alice off at school but followed the wrong car into Bar End. Whoops.
It was a good morning. We spent it with Keith Smith, the lead tutor. I did not say a word as tempted as I was. It truly felt like being back at school, or at best University. I need to get used to it because this is what it feels like to be back at the start of something. I'm smart but know nothing about teaching so need to be OK with making mistakes, looking foolish in front of others. Not today though
Got the all important handbook and learnt about the infamous portfolio of evidence I have to accumulate. Basically, I have to put together 2 box files of documents that show I have mastered the 33 standards expected of a qualified teacher.
Day 82 - The Wykeham Arms
Alice had her first day at St Faiths yesterday and some kid called Theo threw pebbles at her. Nice. They only get worse as they get older and then they come to Kings'
The Maths staff room is very interesting as it is all women. The two male Maths teachers are both Heads of Year and so are out and about all day. They are all characters and sitting with them over lunch is quite daunting. I think I am going to have to find ways to get out and about myself.
Went to pick up our new car - a 3 year old Renault Scenic with 7 seats and then went out for a drink with Kevin. Kevin used to work for me 11 years ago so it's a legitimate first foray into pub going. He took me to the Wykeham Arms about which I got very excited as I could see me taking the boys from Hastings there for a few pints and a game of darts.
Day 81 - NCL
So my 3 letter "signature" next year will be NCL. Somewhat reminiscent of NCR as in National Cash Registers but I will live with it as it a the first concrete indication of my new status as a teacher at Kings. I am observing for the week and spent all day in school. Enjoyed myself very much although didn't pluck up the courage to go to the toilet so it was a desperate dash home at 3:15. Thank God we're living just up the road.
It was encouraging to be recognized by a few of the kids from back in March, especially the naughtier ones! First up was Jane's tutor group. Jane is my mentor for the year which means she helps me get through my first year. She has a full timetable but has found time to make feel welcome so I'm sure we are going to get on well together.
Sat in on some very excitable classes which was good. For the life of me I have no idea how I'm going to deal with a class that is out of control. My fear is that I will be too tolerant and then lose my temper on occasion. That would be awful so need to be really careful. Sat with the class I taught in March and they remembered the "Guinness" lesson.
Had a complete panic attack when Alexis asked me to help someone with construction. Stayed one step ahead and showed no fear! Got home and fell asleep on the floor!
Day 80 - No Credit
We swear we did not hear or see anyone on this street until about 230pm. Eerily quiet. Had a read of the Sunday Times and wandered into town. Found a quirky cinema near the new house so booked tickets to see the new Harry Potter in a couple of weeks. Bought Mrs N a new phone but still couldn't buy more than one at a time so Ellen be Ted will have to wait. The town centre was very busy for a Sunday and we are starting to discover the nooks and crannies of this very old city.
Skyped with the Tarricones at 9am their time. We miss them.
Alice and I start school tomorrow. Aaaaargh
Day 79 - 13 Nightingale Close
Independence Day and we are moving into our new rental today. Early morning run to get rid of some cobwebs. 6 miles around the New Forest was just the ticket.
Finally headed out after packing our cases up again. We have a garden table, 6 chairs, 3 air beds, 1 mattress, 6 plates, 4 cups, 2 pans and that's about it. I got myself a mobile phone in town while Mrs N made the big leap from Tesco to J Sainsbury. All was satisfactory so we headed off and bought a car. All by 530
No fireworks tonight
Day 78 - 11 Weeks
11 weeks since I left Diageo slipped past unnoticed yesterday. So much has happened that I didn't stop to think about it but I did do a conference call to discuss the Whisky Strategy meeting I am facilitating in under two weeks time. I proceed with mixed emotions as the adrenaline definitely kicks in when I think about what should be done but there is still a very marked reluctance to dedicate the time and energy to prepare. It was a good call but I could have, should have, would have done more to be prepared. I think that's who I am rather than Diageo but I do need to get more disciplined as there is no way I can ad-lib 20 lessons a week.
Spent another day in Winchester. We all went to see 2 St Edmunds and take a few notes and then I took Ted and Ellen to look at cars while Mrs N took Alice to St Faiths to meet her new teachers. Poor mite, she finishes Hillside on June 25th and then goes back to school next week...in uniform. She is being very brave about it.
We test drove the Scenic and we like dit so it looks like the famous Nichols "See it, Buy it" modus operandi will kick in tomorrow as we are going back tomorrow to make an offer.
Day 77 - British Telecom Haven't Changed A Bit
Got up early and headed off to Winchester with Ellen to wait for BT to connect our phone line. Very excited to get a phone number. Waited all morning sitting on the floor and eventually Mrs N called BT who informed her that they had connected the phone without needing to come round. 5 f***ing hours. Welcome home.
Started thinking about what kind of car we wanted and narrowed down to Ford S-Max and Renault Grand Scenic because they have 2 extra fold away seats. I promised to shop around and not buy the first one I saw. Very difficult for me. Dad convinced me to cancel the BT Vision plan. What a sucker, 15 quid a month for nothing.
Slight panic attack with all the things we have to get done over the next few weeks so just keep telling myself to take it slowly, make lists and be patient.
Day 76 - 6, Forest View
I don't want anything more
Than to see your face when you open the door
You'll make me beans on toast and a nice cup of tea
And we'll get a Chinese and watch TV
Chinese by Lily Allen
I can't describe what it's like to be home but the fact that we had bacon, eggs and Heinz baked beans with a glass of red wine at 1am, chatting to my Mum and Dad, and then woke up and got a nice cup of tea in bed speaks volumes. Good to be home
Headed off to Winchester with Mrs N and Dad to check on the house and collect the post. The kids went off swimming for the afternoon
Day 75 - Newark, You Plonker
Irony, oh delicious irony (not sure this is irony but what the hell, I can't be bothered to find out the exact definition of what happened). Ellen left her cell phone on the shuttle bus. This is the girl that wouldn't let her cell phone more than 1mm from her 24 hours a day and she leaves it on the bus on her last day. Funny.
The day went really quickly until we arrived and spend about 45 minutes at the New York baggage carousel. None of our 10 bags arrived so we headed off to the baggage office and found out we'd flown from Newark. It's been a long week.
Mum and Dad were there to greet us which was fantastic and we headed down to New Forest in convoy. 2 adults, 3 children, 17 bags, no cat and 7 years of memories
Day 74 - Marriott, Newark Airport
It's finally here! Up early and headed over to Yonkers to hand over the Explorer to Tim. It was interesting. We take the plates in, get his new plates and then I have to drive the car 200 yds up the road. I was a bag of nerves. It felt like I had never driven it before. Curious.
Got a ride back and stopped at Antoinette's for a final latte with Bob and said goodbye to Kus. He promised me a welcome pack of coffee in England. Excellent!
Got back to Peggy's and waited for the family to come together from the 4 corners of town. We packed up in Orca and headed out into the sunset..kind of. To be honest, our departure was very low key which was fine by me and we got to the hotel, said our goodbyes and spent the whole afternoon lying on our beds watching Wimbledon. Ellen only had one meltdown, which was nice
Day 73 - 1969 revisited in Central Park
Our last weekend and we decided to go into Manhattan. Everyone except for Ellen that is, who decided she was going to church instead. Took the FLIP with me to capture a few last moments.
Walked up to Central Park and surprised Alice and Bridget with a ride on the horse and buggy. They loved it and little did I know that 40 years ago almost to the week, my Mum and Dad took us out for the day in Central Park and went on the buggy ride, THE DAY BEFORE WE LEFT THE US. 40 years, unbelievable...I must go and dig out the photos from 1969 and compare to my video.
Had a very mellow dinner with the Shaeffers. Things are getting more and more subdued as the hours count down.
Day 72 - The Long Good Bye/Farewell Tour
Ed Beglane named this the "Farewell Tour" because we seem to have been leaving forever. It's starting to feel like it for us as well but we said we would stay through the weekend so that the kids got to say good bye to their friends. In hindsight we should have left yesterday after school finished.
Went to say a last goodbye to Fred at Tim's flat. He had the kids there so we stayed for a while and then had to go back again to try and save Ted's retainer from the compactor. No luck. Squished
Spent the evening at the Wilts including a very relaxing dip in the hot tub. I'll miss that. Anthony played the "we're naked in the hot tub" trick on everyone. Debbie loved that...
Day 71 - Arthur Avenue
Off to Darien for a briefing on G&B's from Ted. It turned very quickly into lunch where we met Clare Doherty's doppelganger at the restaurant. Not only did she look like her but she was Welsh and had a twin sister. Bizarre.
Once more without the children tonight (Ted went off to watch Shakespeare no less) so we went off to Arthur Avenue with Deb and Anthony for dinner. It was pretty empty due to the rain so we had a fun night out finishing with cigars and espresso. The cigars are becoming habitual
Day 70 - Last Charge of the Ragnar
Got up feeling decidedly ropey this morning but knew I couldn't let the gang down on our final track workout. Glad I didn't as everyone was there except for Ed and Doctor Robert and Ed turned up at the end. We finished off with a relay race and I smoked Mike H before Pete did the same to David. Amazing end to my running days with these guys. I salute you.
Walked Alice up to school for her last day and charge to the new owners as we headed up Farlane. It turns out their truck went to Hastings, NY which is 300 miles up the road. Oops. They seem nice enough and undeserving of the tag we have given them. They heard the raucous cheering on the track this morning and tonight they will get HHS graduation. They'll think it's really really noisy on our little corner.
This afternoon I went go karting with Anthony, Kevin and cousin Anthony. I was a little nervous as Anthony is a little competitive and knows about cars but in the end it was very very funny. I went out first for Race 1 and they all got tangled up behind me so I won that one with the fastest lap. I was drawn first for Race 2 which was great with lots of grumbling so I went out wide at the start and bided my time. Sure enough Anthony crashed, I got round them both and slowly reeled Kevin in before passing him on the last lap. Double Winner.
Day 69 - One For The Road
Ellen had a special day today. I have to admit I was less than charitable when I went round to the McGowans to pick her up at around 10.30am and she was lying in bed like a zombie. She keeps banging on around spending these last few days with her friends and it pissed me off that she was wasting it being lazy with Paulina. It was a bad start to a bad day with her and she skulked at Peggy's house all day with us. She wouldn't even go and get her exam results - we did and she did fantastically well in all her subjects so I guess she did more than enough work, despite our concerns.
And another thing... Had a read of Ted's Yearbook as well and when you get past the foul language (from the girls no less) something clicked in my mind about the drama being played out around our departure. There is so much projected emotion from everyone around us that we are beginning to believe it ourselves. I admit that there are certain moments that have made the eyes water ( Ellen softball, Alice concert, Ted's All Stars, telling Debbie and Anthony) but no-one has died...we are moving 3,000 miles away in an age of instant communication. The most telling impact has been on Ted. He has been pretty cool about the whole thing and has shown interest in what the future holds but after all the wailing and gnashing of teeth and I have to say highly charges notes in his year book he now believes he is going to miss Hastings terribly and life without it will be empty. The cultural divide on this point is enormous. In England it would be a polite wave, a "good luck in the colonies, old chap" and a Christmas Card if you're lucky.
Fixed the Tarricones wireless connection tonight and I was so proud of myself I drank way too much beer and whisky. Way too much. The only upside is that I beat Anthony at darts.....twice
Day 68 - Trip Into Manhattan
Amazingly, I crawled out of bed and made my way over to the Aqueduct for our 6.15 rendez-vous, picking Mike Hogan up on the way. A very unfamiliar route but happy I made it. I felt good all day as a result. It was very strange not having the kids with us, knowing that two other families were getting them ready for school
Mrs N and I took a trip into the city and met up with Debbie and Lisa for some shopping down town. I was there to find some gifts and a last few catch ups before leaving. I just about fitted it all in. Technically we took Ellen and some of her friends as well but they disappeared at Grand Central.
First up was lunch with Bret. He is heading off to Gabon for at least year. This adventure almost made me jealous and I was very excited for him. Then it was a cup of tea with Chris and then the train to White Plains for a pint with Christian. Finally we had dinner with Rob and Tom in Greenwich. They were very pleased with their gifts particularly the bacon rasher band-aids
Day 67 - Alice Graduates From Hillside
At 8am I was sealing the tiles in our shower for the billionth time and realised to my horror that the sharp ammonia smell was lingering in the bathroom...we opened the window, burnt some matches, sprayed some perfume and it finally dissipated...phew
We then headed up to Hillside to see Alice graduate from 4th Grade with all her friends. A little emotional but not too bad. We then sped home for the buyers' walk through before loading all our remaining possessions and depositing them at Peggy's house.
We didn't hear from the lawyer til we called him ourselves so were relieved to find out that all was well. Went and collected our checks before breathing a big sigh of relief and depositing it at the bank. WE SOLD OUR HOUSE....whether the figures are accurate or not I don't know but only 2 houses in Hastings have sold during the time we had ours on the market. Karma
Ellen had a not so surprise party at the Stantons which went as well as could be expected. It wsa only the right that all the kids we wanted to stay left early and vice versa. Had a couple of drinks and collapsed into bed...a real bed not a f***ing futon mattress (little did I know there was worse to come)
Day 66 - Fred's New Home
All things considered the hangover wasn't too bad today although it was not helped by the futon. We all staggered to the Dobbs Diner for a late breakfast and Shaggy left after a swift game of soccer tennis while we did the last bit of clearing up in the house.
Took Fred over to Tim's flat with the kids and left her hiding in a corner. Not a happy moment for any of us but there is nothing else we can do until August. Ran a bunch of errands and squeezed in a cheeky beer and a game of darts with Anthony before heading off to the Shaeffers for an excellent dinner. Exhausted
Day 65 - Cigars and Blue Label
Rain threatened as we headed off to Ted's doubleheader in Jersey. The boys drew 1-1 with Ironbound, who beat them at the Regionals in May. The second game was cancelled due to rain and the year ended not with a bang but with a whisper. Everyone seemed disappointed with the year which was a real surprise to me as I think Ray put a decent team together after a rough start. It could all fall apart now that Mauricio is going to FC. Oh well, better out of it.
Back for the party and what a send off. It's just a shame that we didn't get on a plane the next day as a grand exit stage left would have been in order. The Tarricones put on an excellent show at party central and we had speeches, poems, cigars, fine whisky, darts and all our friends under one roof. Ellen baby sat for Tim and Shaggy showed up with a mate so we parties late and got to bed at 3.30 a little worse for wear.
Most triumphant
Day 64 - 8th Grade Jumping Out Of Windows
Field Day was cancelled today which was complete Sod's Law. The only one I have been able to make in 7 years and it gets rained off. Instead I spent a very pleasant morning doing nothing. We ended up putting a few outside events on for Alice's grade as they were leaving, which was fun.
Went out for dinner with Anthony at Tony's in Hastings. Portugese no less and serving Sagres beer. Then walked up and chaperoned the 8th Grade party which was the usual madness of crowd control at the end. Swift couple of beers at the Roadhouse and home to the airbed
Day 63 - Decisions, Decisions
Went running in the rain at 615 this morning and only the two unemployed nutters turned up. A good run with Kevin and we talked through the Diageo dilemma. I really do not want to go back. Two reasons: 1. The comment made by a former colleague when I asked for his advice "aah, they all come back eventually" and b. I don't want to be distracted (or stressed?) away from the new challenge ahead of me. Think of the money though ..... so I said yes.
Ellen first finished school on Monday so it's been the devil's own job trying to keep her to focused on her exams this week. She seems very laid back which is driving Mrs N nuts. My attitude is more "let's see the results" but we continue to push her so she learns the value of hard work. We shall see.
Spent a lovely evening with Evan and Robert. It seems that they may be heading back in 2010. That would be a smart move. I want to see that boy on the rugby field!
Match Report: Eastern FC 0 Ted's All Stars 4
5.15pm kick off
Coached by the brilliant tactician, Richard Nichols, Ted’s All Stars pulled off a stunning victory against Eastern FC last night.
Nichols, unruffled by the absence of his combustible assistant coach, was positively Wenger like as he pulled together a motley crew of journeymen, individual talent and solid team players and moulded them in to a well oiled football machine. Chests swelled with pride as the English and US flags were swapped on the halfway line and top ranked referee, Klaus Whitney, got the game underway
The All Stars barely survived the first half as Eastern sent wave after wave of attacks down both flanks, orchestrated by a small blonde lad with the skills of Ronaldo and the speed of a tortoise. Young Lee Owen was immense in goal and the watching scouts were salivating over his signature for the 2009-10 season. The central defensive pairing of Tim and Cesco and then Tim and Alex surprised me and themselves with some very solid defending in the air and on the ground, never missing a tackle and sending every loose ball flying, Tony Adams like, in to the North Stand. Dave O, Nolan and Adam were snapping at the heels of every Eastern attacker, terrier like, with Dave O snarling like a young Stuart Pearce as he got to grips with Eastern’s Albanian playmaker, Elson.
In midfield, it was all defensive work with the odd break to relieve the pressure. As expected, Austin T was here, there and everywhere, ably partnered by Ben who was Glen Hoddle like in his calm demeanour and simple passes. On the wings, Mitch and Daniel L were putting in a very impressive work rate, working up a sweat as they tracked back and forth the full sized turf pitch.
Attack was limited but there was no shortage of hard work and running from Ricky and Jack while Daniel O let his feet do the talking, a welcome change from before the game!
Everything changed in the 2nd half as the famous Nichols half time talk galvanized the All Stars, the small blonde lad switched teams and Eastern’s coach made the #1 error in youth football – he let the boys decide where they wanted to play. Having survived a couple of Eastern goal attempts, Cesco and then Jack found themselves in acres of space but both shot wide as their left feet let them down. Spotting Eastern’s formation change to 1-9, Nichols pushed Mitch up on their one defender and with Austin, Ted and Jack zipping around like Fireflies the attacks came thick and fast. Finally the Eastern resistance broke and
With Tim, Ben and Adam giving Eastern very little time on the ball in midfield, the All Stars found their fluency and the small blonde lad was starting to show his range of passing across the park. The defense were able to relax a bit more with Alex and Nolan shutting down the Eastern attack time after time, leaving Lee twiddling his thumbs in goal for long periods.
With that much space, more goals were bound to follow and so they did with Ricky taking two chances with pinpoint accuracy after nice work from the small blonde lad on the wing. Towards the end Eastern had a goal controversially ruled out for offside – a thumping header from Brian the goalkeeper.
Time was running out and with Eastern heads dropping, there was time for one more goal as All Stars scythed through the defence and Jack slotted home #4.
Result: Ted’s All Stars 4 Eastern FC 0
Day 62 - Ted's All Stars
Woke up with a sore back after our first night on a futon mattress. Cool in the 1980s they may have been but horrible to sleep on.
Dan Buttling called me today and asked if I would lead a workshop on a whisky strategy for him. My immediate response was no as I made the decision to leave that all behind BUT it is whisky, it is Dan and, in the context of a teacher's salary, it's alot of cash. I said I'd think about it. Mrs N was very clear that there was only one right decision.
This evening we had Ted's testimonial game. I'm pretty sure he knew about it but did a good job of hiding it. It was a good laugh to see him play with all his mates. The All Stars ran out 4-0 winners thanks to superior coaching from me. Ray was a lousy coach but put together some great t-shirts for the kids. [see match report below]
Day 61 - Meet the MD of Green & Black's
Slightly more depressing today as they took a grand total of 1 and a half hours to load the container and piss off. All we have left is Ellen's bed, two blow up mattresses, a freaked out cat, a microwave and a kettle. They packed the cupboard of old kitchen stuff they were meant to leave so we made pancakes in a pasta pan with a wooden spoon. Try tossing pancakes when the sides are 10 inches high.
The good news is they took the rest of my wine and whisky. Phew.
Went off to Darien to meet Dominic Lowe, the head of Green & Black's with Rob. I think it went well and will get some income from that over the coming months. An intriguing brand issue to solve in the UK so hope I can juggle school, marketing and motivation
Day 60 - 4 hours...is that it?
It's actually July 1st and we are in England. It's been a whirlwind 2 weeks so I will attempt to catch up.
Monday the packers came in and we were either so well prepared or had sold everything in the yard sale that they took the grand total of 4 hours to pack the whole thing up! A little depressing to see your life's material possessions packed up so quickly. They left the beds for one last night so at least we had one last good night's sleep.
Alice and Bridget had their ears pierced today. A very exciting moment for them both and it was great to be there with Alice at a milestone event. She grew up a few years in the minute it took!